Will he still want me when he's healed from his substance addictions?

recovery

#1

This is such a weird question to write for me.

My husband is doing SO well like breakthrough well emotionally / stability etc. wise.

And I just had this feeling reminiscent of many times before. Will he still want me when he heals?

I had this feeling early in his recovery and the flashback is wild.

Anyone else felt this totally non-sensical feeling?


#2

I have a few times for sure but I don’t think it was ever rational. I know my fiance cares for me and is very grateful for the me being there for her. In the end I found that any feelings I had of insecurity about the future of the relationship after recovery came down to my own internal beliefs and how I felt about my own self worth at the time. Worked on myself, grew from it and that was that for those feelings.