My boyfriend has been in rehab for 2 weeks now, and I have come to the realization that I don’t think I’m going to be a part of his life when he gets out. He doesn’t ever start a conversation with me, I have to. And when I say things like “I miss you,” the conversation ends. I’m done being upset/sad about it. It just sucks because if it wasn’t for me, he probably wouldn’t have gotten help like he is now. I helped him so immensely while his addiction broke me in every way possible. I’ve since gotten sober myself, which is why he probably isn’t talking to me. I feel like he was just using me, and now that he’s sober, there’s no room for me in his life anymore. I still have a good majority of his things at my apartment, so there still is a little thread of hope that I will see him again. But I just don’t know anymore. I think I need to just accept the fact that it’s over, it was just the drugs and his addiction that made our relationship work. But being sober, I’m still just as in love with him.
Any comments or suggestions, anything really would help.
Thanks everyone! I’m really struggling with this.