@Brenda_Allen Thank you for your comment here. I agree everyone needs to set their own boundaries. Some people want their loved one at home even in active use; others can’t or won’t do that. I know a mother whose son had been in jail (he was in his mid-40s). He went to live with her afterwards, and after living there for a few years, he overdosed on heroin & died in her home. She told me she had enabled him, and I said (I am a mom of a heroin user too), there is no right or wrong here - you must follow your heart.