I’m considering the Course but I’m a little unsure based on some of the language. I have done just about all of the helping and supporting of my husband that I’m able to do. I got him into IOP and he is attending daily meetings, does therapy and journals, etc. I totally understand that relapse is part of recovery and have worked hard to be understanding, supportive, and action-oriented after he drinks. What I really need help with is how to help him stop his lying/manipulation/secrecy. He will continue to hide drinking even when confronted with hard evidence. He gaslights me and I am at the end of my rope with the feeling of going crazy wondering if he’s drinking or not.
Will the course help me to help him be more open and less secretive with me. Can anything stop the lies?